Idea for a book?
A woman realises that she has been carrying around unspoken grievances against her friends and family for years and resolves to clear the air. She makes a list of her upsets and starts confronting the people responsible to try and reset their relationships. This, predictably enough, just causes more upsets and the people she's spoken to start bringing their lists to her. She begins to realise that her problem was not necessarily other people and that there is a list of upsets she has caused herself. In the end, she upsets the list, instead creating one of all the ways these people have improved her life and finally everyone can go back to quietly enduring and enjoying each other.